Parenting Tips Newsletter
Letter from the author
Free Parenting Tips NewsletterThe author of ADHD report, Bob Collier, is a stay-at-home father of two, a home educator, and the publisher of Parental Intelligence parenting tips newsletter.
Hi - My name's Bob Collier.
I'm the publisher of 'Parental Intelligence'.
I'd like to take this opportunity to tell you a little bit
I come originally from London, England, but I now live in Canberra, the capital city of Australia, with my wonderful wife, Mary, and our two fantastic children, Bronwyn and Patrick. Bronnie was born in Sydney, Australia, in 1985, and Patrick in London in 1995.
For most of the time since I became a parent, my primary occupation has been 'stay-at-home dad'.
It all began way back in February 1986, when my daughter was about
six or seven months old. At that time, I was very much a traditional
father, in full-time employment in the workforce while my wife was
at home with our new baby.
I thought it would be a great opportunity for me to write that best-selling
novel I'd always wanted to write, but it didn't turn out that way!
Instead, it became the start of a magnificent adventure that radically
changed my perception of reality and created for me an unusual way
of life that relatively few fathers are ever privileged to
Now, all these years later, besides publishing my parenting newsletter every week, I'm involved in another 'whole new world of adventure' - home educating my son Patrick, after he decided to opt out of the school system at the end of 2002.
Bronnie, at the same time, graduated from high school (in the top 1% of students in the Australian Capital Territory) and is now at the University of Canberra taking a double degree in Arts and Law.
I'm not a parenting expert, nor am I striving to become one, but I'm confident that I know something useful about the subject and I feel that - in partnership with my wife, Mary - I've been pretty successful as a parent so far. Whether that's true or not, I'm very pleased to say that my children's lives are a hugely positive contrast to my own rather sad and painful childhood.
My parenting philosophy is based on what I've learned (and continue to learn) from the self-help, personal development and 'success psychology' books that I like to read and have been reading for more than twenty years (now augmented by my daily explorations on the internet!) - which is possibly why my personal parenting techniques are a little unusual.
Before I started publishing 'Parental Intelligence' in August 2002,
I'd never actually read a book on parenting (or even a magazine article
that I can recall) in my entire life, and I still prefer to ignore
most of the recognised 'parenting experts' and focus simply on positive
From my own childhood experiences as a victim of parental incompetence
and my deep involvement in the day-to-day activities of parenting
my own children over many years, I've become especially interested
in those aspects of parenting in itself - as both an art and a science
- that go far beyond what I call 'the mechanics'. I believe that parenting
today is probably more complicated and requires a greater intellectual
commitment than at any time in human history (that's, of course, on
top of the always required huge emotional commitment to what is arguably
For me, truly successful parenting is ultimately a product of what goes on in our minds. Our parenting behaviour is an expression of what we think about when we think about our children (and our relationships with our children). Successful parenting is also about learning. In order to constantly improve our thinking and our parenting we need to be open to new information and knowledge.
That's why I call my newsletter 'Parental Intelligence'.
I hope it will help you enjoy the experience of being a parent and increase your desire to excel - and that it will, through you, contribute to the happiness and success of your children.
If you have any questions you'd like to ask me, please feel free to email me.
Have a great day!
12 December 2003
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